Sex b4 Marriage...duh!

Well if you ask me...it depends on how an individual view "sex"....if its just a past time activity then thats it......both women and men need to be blamed here....the way they have been brought up..the exposure...the media...the movies....and of course the need for sex itself....most younger generation view sex as a pleasureable activity which is legitimate with another person who finds it interesting....sex should be discussed more openly and maturedly.....the sex scenes in movies portrays how sensible making love could be....this helps to raise the temptaion of one to indulge and experience it....without diligence...pirated prono cd's are widely available.....people showing off their parts are walking around us...the desire to see and taste wat is hidden beyond the transparent clothes drive an individual to indulge in sex.....some couple regards sex b4 marriage as their assurance for tying the knot...but they missed a lot of things there....once tried..they are hooked with the pleasure of sex which makes them to crave for more......sex is the only thing saved for future or after marriage....the sex should be felt with care and love not lust.....mind control is essential...stop viewing your couple as sex object...see them for what they are...stop fantasizing your couple on bed.....learn about her personality not her or he's beauty......sex is something wonderful....i strictly object sex b4 marriage since i was brought up in such an environment...we give priorities for relationships and love not lust.

What have we done for the Nation

dear brothers and sisters...from all walks of life...have you ever imagined..how our life would have been if for once our nation is not freed from invations.....well...this thought flew accross my mind....made me to hold all my other thoughts and think over this issue....my mum use to me...if you're not doing good to people..at least don't do bad things...for god's sake....i believe that phrase....eventually..i have did very less for the nation...i gave free tuitions..free counseling and sometime motivates my frens and family members over certain issues...but does that contribute to the building of our nation especially our indian community....maybe yes..but apparently indirect...then i realized..i helped the orphanage in my area to donate them food and clothes during tsunami...gave newspapers to the physically and mentally challenged community...what else...i just cant think of one at this minute....so how bout you guys...at least have u gys ever initiated to do something....discuss with me....this types of discussion could build our enthutiasm, self confident, and off cos self satisfaction.....welcome aboard..I will try to recall my memory and will come back to you with the tips what can you do for the nation..need to ask around...

Why she took off her life...UPSR student

As for me...i wont blame the girl...first, we need to look deep into this matter...be more scrutinized....the girl might havetried her level best..yet she obtained such a sickening result....i think...she has been scolded by the parents or relatives....or somebody have demotivated her...used some irrational words and phrases over her result which actually succumb deep into her subconscious thought thus drove her to end herself.....parents should have the faith in their children and blaming them totally is out of question. Result have been announced...nothing can be done...what were they doing until she hang herself....dont tell me no one was around....pity her...how can a merely 12 yr old kid hang herself....she could have not been too obsessed...she just cant accept the fact that she have let down her parents and relatives.....if for a second the family members have consoled her and comforted her with more encourageous word...she could have been saved....pls people....dont burden ur kids with all your unreasonable expectations...and dont let them too loose too....give them what it meant for them....care them...in times of depression....look...depression killed subhashini.....let her be the last one