Sex b4 Marriage...duh!

Well if you ask me...it depends on how an individual view "sex"....if its just a past time activity then thats it......both women and men need to be blamed here....the way they have been brought up..the exposure...the media...the movies....and of course the need for sex itself....most younger generation view sex as a pleasureable activity which is legitimate with another person who finds it interesting....sex should be discussed more openly and maturedly.....the sex scenes in movies portrays how sensible making love could be....this helps to raise the temptaion of one to indulge and experience it....without diligence...pirated prono cd's are widely available.....people showing off their parts are walking around us...the desire to see and taste wat is hidden beyond the transparent clothes drive an individual to indulge in sex.....some couple regards sex b4 marriage as their assurance for tying the knot...but they missed a lot of things there....once tried..they are hooked with the pleasure of sex which makes them to crave for more......sex is the only thing saved for future or after marriage....the sex should be felt with care and love not lust.....mind control is essential...stop viewing your couple as sex object...see them for what they are...stop fantasizing your couple on bed.....learn about her personality not her or he's beauty......sex is something wonderful....i strictly object sex b4 marriage since i was brought up in such an environment...we give priorities for relationships and love not lust.